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Lessons with Lily: Finding Your Groove

This month’s adventure took us to a place filled with music, glitter, and milkshakes—the kindergarten prom. Lily, dressed in her pink dress and full of excitement, was ready for a night of fun. What unfolded turned out to be more than just a night of dancing—it was a masterclass in confidence, connection, and community.

At first, Lily stood back, a little unsure of how to jump in. The music played, the lights flashed, and little by little, she found her groove. Before long, she was out on the dance floor—spinning, laughing, and letting loose with her classmates. It didn’t take long before she was surrounded by new friends, laughing and moving together to the beat.

Lily didn’t just dance—she networked in the way only a kindergartener can. She introduced herself to kids she hadn’t met yet, invited others to join in, and even organized a little group to get milkshakes together afterward. Watching her work the room reminded me just how natural relationship-building can be when you lead with joy, curiosity, and a welcoming spirit.

In business, we often forget that same spirit applies. Finding your groove might look like getting comfortable in a new leadership role, figuring out how to better serve your team, or even just learning to show up more authentically in a crowded room. When you lean into who you are and open yourself to connection, momentum starts to build—just like it did for Lily on the dance floor.

So, whether you’re walking into your next client meeting or leading a company-wide initiative, take a cue from Lily: find your rhythm, connect with others, and don’t forget to enjoy a milkshake (or your favorite reward) when the night winds down.

David Behney, Founder & CEO

David Behney is the Founder and CEO of Behney Management Strategies, where he helps small businesses achieve their big goals through expert C-suite consulting. With a background in fractional CFO services, David now provides strategic guidance across finance, operations, marketing, and technology to businesses with $1M–$30M in revenue. Passionate about driving growth and sustainability, he partners with business leaders to build strong foundations and navigate challenges. Connect with David to take your business to the next level.